You started all of this, but --with or without your permission -- someone else is intent on finishing it for you. A collaborative effort is out of your hands, so why spend your time worrying about it? You should know by now that planning only works among people who are receptive to your methods. Trying to convince someone of something they dont want to believe is a nearly impossible task. After this, maybe you should be a little more careful about choosing who will bear your secrets.
Now that you have tried the way everyone else does it, it is time to get a little more creative. Unorthodox methods just may be the answer -- if you are willing to give them a shot, that is. Luckily, Virgo understands the current system well enough to outsmart it when necessary. If your luck holds, the boss or client wont pick this moment to drop in and see how you are doing. At this point, what they dont know cant hurt them. Make sure it stays that way.
Someone brings their emotions to what you thought would be an intellectual discussion. Remain calm. What seems etched in stone may really be scrawled in sand. If you are lucky, the tide will be in soon to wash away all of the unpleasantness you are feeling right now. In the meantime, it might be best for you not to share your resources. You dont want to think the worst of people, but at the same time, you cant really trust this crowd either.